Door delivery: outbox drainer + SMTP transport (inert until configured)

The §15 door's email_send queues to `outbox` but nothing delivered it. Add a
real transport: cm-db outbox repo (list_queued/mark_sent/mark_failed) + a
cm-runtime drainer — an EmailSender trait (testable), a lettre STARTTLS
LettreSender, drain_once (queued -> sent/failed), and spawn_drainer wired into
the server beside the scheduler/sweeper/topology-worker.

Config-gated: inert (logs "outbox delivery DISABLED") until CLAWMATES_SMTP_*
is set, so it ships safely before credentials exist. The agent never holds the
SMTP credential — it only writes to outbox through the gated door; the server
owns the transport.

NOTE: live delivery is still credential-blocked — Migadu's API can't send
(SMTP-only) and the admin token is invalid; no SMTP creds exist. The transport
is built + tested (drain_marks_sent_and_failed via a mock sender); set
CLAWMATES_SMTP_* to go live with zero further code. clippy clean.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <[email protected]>

.sqlx/query-4a6dc5f913e7844abc3df5762846ba2d13348c96c9d617e8a10c2ce0017bd324.json

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+{
+  "db_name": "PostgreSQL",
+  "query": "UPDATE outbox SET status = 'failed' WHERE id = $1",
+  "describe": {
+    "columns": [],
+    "parameters": {
+      "Left": [
+        "Uuid"
+      ]
+    },
+    "nullable": []
+  },
+  "hash": "4a6dc5f913e7844abc3df5762846ba2d13348c96c9d617e8a10c2ce0017bd324"
+}